Sustained Dialogue
Testimonials
"At the University of Virginia, Sustained
Dialogue has had just the kind of effect I
hoped it would when it was first being
organized here. It has put down roots and
enabled a significant number of people to
explore one another's life stories and points
of view with real depth and continuity. UVa
with SD feels like a subtly but recognizably
different place from UVa before SD. What SD has
the potential to do is to create concentric
circles of empathy among a large number of
people to get at the subjective reality of one
another's ways of looking at the world to
embody Goethe's wonderful, pithy phrase, 'That
is my truth, now tell me yours.'"
- Dean Pablo
Davis, University of Virginia
“There was definitely a lot of
skepticism when we got started. And we, as
moderators, were in uncharted territory. But,
in both [our] groups, there were breakthrough
days where people shared their most personal
feelings about racism. People were moved to
understanding and empathy and we moved forward
together. This was only possible because the
same group of people met
repeatedly.”
- David Tukey,
Princeton
University ’02
"Sustained Dialogue brings with it
a kind of flavor that draws individuals (that
wouldn't normally include themselves in
conversations about difference) to the table;
it can clearly be credited with building a
stronger sense of community at Dickinson
College and changing the way people view
themselves and others."
- Norm Jones,
Administrator, Dickinson
College
“I agonized with friends through
my freshman year about how I could do something
to improve race relations. When I heard about
Sustained Dialogue, I said to myself,
‘That’s something I can do.’”
- Teddy Nemeroff,
Princeton
University ‘01
“I think that Sustained Dialogue
has really begun to make its impact on UVa.
This year there were a lot of racially involved
events, and while many attempted to do things
to improve the situation, it is evident that SD
is the group that will continue to be forum for
discussion and change. [SD] brings
together
groups of people that would not
usually be found in the same room, and it gives
them the opportunity to discuss topics usually
kept behind closed doors. But discussion is
what is needed if people are ever going to open
up and change their ways, and that is what
Sustained Dialogue is all about.”
- Jessica Fowler,
University of Virginia ’06
“The beautiful thing about
Sustained dialogue is that while there is a
good deal of energy, it is ultimately “grass
roots” and student driven.”
- Janet Dickerson,
VP of Campus Life, Princeton
University
“As a black woman in America I
confront many barriers. Sustained Dialogue is
my voice. It is an avenue for me to be honest
about my experience and share my perspective.
When my contemporaries acquire positions of
power they might remember our discussions
[which might] possibly shape the way they see
the world.”
- Tshepo Masango,
Princeton
University ’03
“Sustained Dialogue has opened my
eyes up to race relations in a way that I had
never thought possible. As a middle class white
student from the suburbs, I had been taught the
"colorblind" mentality growing up and as a
result, was unaware of the racial dynamics that
pervade all segments of society. Going through
Sustained Dialogue, I've learned more from my
peers -- and taught others more --
than I ever could have
imagined.”
- Brian Cook,
University of Virginia ’04
“[That] is what makes SD so
powerful. The connections the people can make
with one another forms the bond that actually
sustained the dialogue.”
- Sam Todd,
Princeton
University ’04
“9/11 confirmed how much more we
need to do as a nation. The real potential [of
Sustained Dialogue] is to bring into the
conversation about difference, those who are
not already on that path. Sustained Dialogue
reaches beyond the choir.”
- Janina Montero,
Vice-Chancellor, UCLA
(former VP
of Campus Life, Brown
University)
"In my group, I see the true
essence of the program - how it has already
influenced many students; teaching them to
challenge their old ways of thinking and
introducing them to different points of view. I
met people who were scared, like me, of what
they might hear, and I know see how strong and
engaged they are in this program. I have put
aside my fears and doubts; I am excited to
continually talk, listen and learn from my
fellow [peers] through Sustained Dialogue.
...what we learn, such as listening and
discussion skills, are things we will take with
us after we graduate. I have tremendous faith
and pride in
this program and in each
participant; I think, together, we can really
make a difference…”
- Lisa Bowman,
Dickinson ‘04
"Sustained Dialogue makes college
more enjoyable. We all go to school seeking new
experiences and people, but often don't like to
step outside our comfort zones. Sustained
Dialogue... puts 10 or so people of various
backgrounds in a room, and through simple
communication, creates great friendships.
Cultures,
religions, and entire lives are
shared merely through human interaction. Too
often we're too afraid to take that step and
truly broaden ourselves. But once we do, our
life and the lives of those around us are made
stronger."
- Danny Rubin,
University of Virginia ‘06
"Before I found out about Sustained
Dialogue I was like many other students at
Notre Dame; I was apathetic towards the state
of race relations on our campus. We all viewed
our racial tension as the way things were
instead of how they should be. Many, including
the administration, saw no answer for this
apathy and tension. That was until they were
introduced to Sustained Dialogue and they
realized, just as I did, that Sustained
Dialogue works, and it is a plausible answer to
a question that has plagued not just college
students, but US citizens as well. Sustained
Dialogue makes it possible to repair the
strained relationships that exist among
us."
-Jelani McEwen-Torrence, Co-Founder,
University of Notre Dame '05
“Sustained Dialogue forces you to step
out of your comfort zone and deal with people
and issues that you otherwise might have
ignored. It provides a comfortable space,where
strong relationships are built, becoming the
foundation for greater social
change.”
-Aseil Abu-Baker,
University of
Virginia ‘06
“The Sustained Dialogue experience
truly helps one develop a resilient
personality—towards dealing with conflict,
adjusting to change, and meeting different
people. These are absolutely necessary for
success in one’s future career and everyday
encounters.”
-Tessa Garcia, SD
Founder, University of Notre Dame
’05
“What I appreciate most about SD is the
commitment to honesty I find across both campus
dialogues and at SDCN; it’s a commitment to
honesty that’s compassionate. I find it
wonderful that SD is not yet another
touchy-feely, liberal agenda
organization. SD’s success lies in its
blend of experience, practicality, and
idealism. The better I come to understand
SD, I see how it is a working solution towards
understanding my real life and the community in
which I live.”
-Christina Black,
Lawrenceville School ‘05
